Tam + Fam: So cute, they rhyme!

My friend Tam is just one of those friends. We can go for months without touching base... and yet, when we get back together, it's as if no time has passed at all, and we pick back up again right where we left off. :) I love that. Tam makes me laugh like, well.... in a way that only she can, so I always look forward to catching up with her. Last time I saw Tam, she and her husband Loren, along with their two kids Evie & Lyla, were living in San Francisco where Loren was finishing his MBA at Berkley. Emir and I caught up with them in Seattle where they literally just finished unpacking their last moving box... yet somehow already seem remarkably settled into their new home overlooking all the splendor of Mt. Rainier.

In honor of their recent 10 year wedding anniversary, Tam & Loren rounded up the girls for a quickie family photo session. :) A few quick faves...

I think this shot is so perfectly telling of their various stages/ages. Evie is whizzing by on the swing in the background, while Lyla just sort of dangles... content enough to hold herself in the swing like a 'big girl.'

These two have an incredible history together. From their undergrad days at BYU to new beginnings at Amazon.com in Seattle... I'm so proud of them both and their inspirational example of commitment and teamwork.

Ca-yuuuute!

Lyla wasn't having any of this shot.... but I still love it. :) Hugs to you all!

Runaway to: Seattle (and Canada!)

My 31st bday was getting closer and closer... and though I had made the decision months ago to keep my wedding calendar open that weekend, Emir and I still hadn't decided what we were going to do with it. And then one night... while screwing around on one of our techno gadgets, we decided that Seattle sounded good. Nebraska's humidity was wearing on us, and we both have friends to visit in the fabled rainy city, so... we booked our tickets and a couple weeks later, we found ourselves gearing up for an early (very. early.) flight. (Sorry love... I don't know what it is with me and the painfully early flights... seems like we're always having to wake up before 3am to make it on time!) We LOVE when we have the opportunity to travel with just our backpacks. No laptops. No roller bags. Just what we can carry on our backs... and all the freedom that comes with that. I thought it'd be fun to make a quick video about how we pack so much into such a small bag and make it work for weeks at a time (our first backpacking trip across Europe was 3 weeks and it was a piece of cake with these bags!)... but I kept forgetting (I blame the early morning flights!) and the next thing I knew, I was already home and had unpacked. Doh! Remind me for next time!

(For those of you wondering, yes... I still brought my camera. Two of them in fact. My big guns only captured a small handful of images included in this post... the rest were shot with my super ancient 'purse cam.')

After a crazy fast flight connection, Emir and I met up with his childhood friend, Dino, whom he hadn't seen since before he left Bosnia. Dino picked us up at the airport, gave us the royal European hospitality treatment (including Bosnian coffee and cevapi!), and took us for a drive around some great parts of the city. What a host! :)

Eventually, we ended up downtown where we thought we were going to rent a pair of bikes for the week... but that ended up not working out quite as intended, which was great... because we wandered over to the local farmer's market where we saw this incredible metal tree sculpture...

Caught this glimpse of Seattle's Space Needle...

Soaked up some sun...

and ate dinner and enjoyed the live band. Not bad for screwed up bike reservations! :)

After our farmer's market dinner, we headed to my friend Tamara's place to crash for the night. She's one of those fabulous friends that  you just can't get enough of (more from her family to come!). The next day was my bday, and Emir had plans for us! We took the bus back downtown and hung out at Seattle's food festival known as "Bite of Seattle." (Are you sensing the theme here? FOOD!) While enjoying the culinary delights of the festival in the park surrounding the Space Needle, we caught this hilarious photo and spent the rest of the trip laughing at it. It looks like a horrid Photoshop job... but alas... it was straight up captured like this. LOL!

Us... waiting for the bus.

Emir surprised me with reservations for lunch at the restaurant on top of the Space Needle. I wasn't quite sure what to expect. For one thing, I wasn't sure we were dressed appropriately... and I guess I was thinking it would be the same kind of cheesy tourist trap you encounter in places like the Rain Forrest Cafe or Planet Hollywood. However... I was very pleasantly surprised. Neigh, even impressed! (Well... after making it past all the Space Needle water globes and crystallized paper weights in the lobby...). Our meal was uh-maaaazing. My tummy is grumbling again just from thinking about it!

I don't know why, but I always assumed the top of the needle itself was what rotated... but actually, there's a track inside the needle that rotates within the restaurant (like all the guest tables are on a carousel). Kinda made my stomach turn at first (I'm a motion sickness wimp!), but... after the first few minutes, it was great, and I loved getting the 360-degree view of the city. And what great weather we had!

Of course, later, we ended up at Pike's Market. I couldn't get over all the fresh flowers... too bad my backpack didn't have a built in vase! How cool would that have been?

Ok... here's the purse cam pushing the limits of its hi-ISO technology from 2003. :) I love these large over-sized chess boards. Totally reminds me of both Puerto Rico and New Orleans. Interesting...

This street artist was a magician with charcoal!

We drank our weight in lattes on our trip! Here we are resting our feet while plotting our next java escapade when we noticed our sunburns... in Seattle of all places!

OK, super painful low-light/hi-ISO noise again... but look at this view from my friend's deck! That's Mt. Rainier. Let's just say I contemplated moving in with them... I couldn't get enough of this sight! :)

Phew! Back to well light situations the purse cam can handle!

One of my favorite countries of all 16+ that I've been to thus far... is Canada. It's an interesting cross of north America and Europe. Among the various provinces, British Columbia is especially close to my heart. During my beloved Up With People days, I spent nearly 2 months on Vancouver Island... and totally fell in love with the place. Emir had never been, so we caught the ferry up to Victoria from Seattle and spent 3 days in cool, but sunny Canada. I was in heaven!

We walked on our trip. A lot. Like I said, we were planning on a biking excursion... which didn't happen. But with only our backpacks... we had no problem walking. The hotel we stayed at in Victoria was called the English Inn & Resort. A charming English cottage nestled on 5 acres of gorgeous landscaping, we took advantage of the great weather and slept with our windows open, soaking up all the fresh cool air (the antithesis of Nebraska's nasty heat blanket that strangles you on a daily basis this time of year).

On top of our daily runs, we enjoyed walking the 3+ miles from our hotel to Victoria's downtown (which I'm told has the most restaurants in all of BC). We took the boardwalk along the harbor's edge and were treated to all kinds of gorgeous views.

Macro function on the purse-cam!

I think this is my favorite image from the whole trip. Courtesy of, you guessed it! The purse cam!

After talking with one of our waitresses, I became fascinated with the idea of living on the water. These houseboats are basically a platform (barge?), with a house built on top of it. It's not like a boat in the sense that it doesn't have a motor... so you'd have to tow it or have it towed... but then you just pay to 'dock' it wherever your heart desires. I had a host family once in Up With People who had lived on a house boat. It's times like these that make me wish I had paid more attention during those days of being a silly 18 year old.... *sigh*

Our final day in Victoria was spent finishing our books and drinking more coffee. :) During the trip I read Bart Yasso's "My Life on the Run" which was all kinds of inspiring. I was sad when I finished the book (it was truly that good!) so I capped it off with Seth Godin's "Tribes." Good (duh, it's Seth Godin!) but not worth keeping on my book shelf forever... so when we were done (Emir read it too), we passed it along to a young lady we met who wanted to read it. I hope when she's finished, she passes it on again. I love thinking that our book may have a traveling soul, crossing international boundaries. Besides, it was time for more coffee...

We finished it up with yet another meal at this awesome place we found (and later had recommended to us... after having already eaten there once), called Rebar.

That night, we caught a ferry back to Seattle, slept for a few hours, and caught a 6am flight back to Nebraska's humidity. It was there to great us with a familiar squeeze. :)

Class of 2011: Jami

It's that time of year again, where I start to wonder how it is that I always seem to end up with the most gorgeous people in front of my camera... I mean... for real!? How does this happen? Of course, I'm not complaining... but geesch... It's starting to give me a complex! LOL! :) Somehow I'm always a pile of sweat drops punctuated by out of control bangs... and they're... well... gorgeous. Always. Even when it's 10 bazillion degrees out. One of these days I hope they let me in on their secret... :) In the meantime, here's the ever beautiful Jami!

She's a dancer... and fell in love with my orange tutu when she walked in the studio....

I LOVE this.

Couldn't leave out Keaton!

Great stuff! Enjoy the rest of your summer and have a crazy fab year!

Class of 2011: Allie

Summer is here and in full swing! That means sunny days, cookouts, trips out to the lake... and... seniors! :) Allie is among the lovely graduating class of 2011... and though it's hot, humid and pretty much disgusting outside now, spring and the arrival of her much anticipated graduation day will be here before we know it! :) Enjoy all your travel this summer Allie... and have a fabulous senior year!

Down the Aisle: Ashlynn + Matt

Her blue, sparkling eyes looked up at me when I first walked into the bridal room... and I was greeted with a squeal and a huge hug when Ashlynn exclaimed, "Hi Khara!" Tory, her mom, was nearby... and she was already glowing with the love of a mother-of-the-bride, overcome with pride and joy for her daughter on such an important (and exciting!) day. With a super great guy like Matt waiting to greet you at the other end of the aisle, how could you not be pumped? And cute shoes like this?! Ashlynn was smiling from head... to toe!

Wedding: Faith Westwood United Methodist Church Reception: The Paxton Ballroom Live Band: The Wise Guys

The girls formed a ring of support around Ashlynn while they laced up the back of her dress. The symbolism was touching.

In addition to the necklace Matt surprised her with, Ashlynn proudly wore her great grandmother's ring down the aisle.

Beautiful bouquet!

Emir scored this great shot of the boys... you know... just hangin'. :)

In what may have been one of the biggest surprises of all... Ashlynn surprised Matt with a MacBook Pro! He's a big time photo/video guy, so needless to say... he was stoked!

Grandparents. Always so cute!

Emir hits it out of the park again!

The reception was held at The Paxton in downtown Omaha. Be-yuuuuuu-tiful!

Matt's brother Zach rocked the house with his toast! An engineer by day.... he's apparently a chart/graph making ace in his off hours. Hilarious!

Um.... every wedding needs a little cow bell crowd surfing!

L.O.V.E. Congrats guys... you really hit it out of the park not only with a fantastic day... but of course having found each other  in the first place... and over time, building a relationship that is so obviously..... true. Hugs!

The Good Stuff

Shoots like this remind us what it's all about. Young families. So much love. So much to believe in. So much.... energy & giggles! :) Once Marti got warmed up to me and the camera, she was firing on all 8 cylinders. And little Ryne... he had the most adorable 'scoot' move ever.... even though he often left me in his dust... ha! Here's a quick glimpse at some my favorite moments from our session. :)

Down the Aisle: Betsy + Henry | West Point, NE

In what can only be described as the ultimate compliment, I found myself back in West Point, NE for the third time in four weeks (the fourth time since May). Three years ago I began what was to become an ongoing relationship with this darling town... and I am beyond honored to have pretty much officially become a member of the community. Wedding guests often ask with a smile, "Why don't you just move to West Point? You're here every weekend!" Betsy and Henry's wedding felt like the culmination of all the various years I've had the honor of shooting up in West Point (and Snyder). It was like coming home to my own family in a sense. At several points during the day, I found myself prone to tears for all kinds of random reasons. Maybe it was the way Henry's Grandpa's eyes sparkled, reminding me of my own Grampa we lost quite some time ago. It could've been the way Betsy teared up repeatedly during the ceremony... conveying the sense of the enormity of such a moment, the beginning of a new family. Or, perhaps it was just the overall sense of community that abounds at these classic small town weddings. Everyone knows everybody. No one is a stranger. They've been having the same gatherings in the same places with the same people for a lifetime. It's rich with tradition and the familiarity that comes with time.

Speaking of, this is the handbag from Henry's great grandmother's wedding. I love the texture and design....

Betsy's bouquet was exquisite and smelled as good as it looked...

Perfection... not a hair out of place.

Henry: an all-around likable guy. :)

Some fave moments from the ceremony:

I couldn't take my eyes of this little cutie... he was all smiles!

Those boys....

The girls dresses featured pockets. Love that.

The Fireman's Ballroom in Snyder was stylin'. I love the elegant simplicity of these centerpieces!

What a fun day! :) Thanks for letting this city gal be such a part of your familes. :) Hugs to you all!

Mentee: Katrina

Katrina *gets it.* Since launching her business just over six months ago... she is already well on her way to many of the revelations and epiphany moments that can often take years to arrive at. What separates Katrina from the countless numbers of folks who pick up a dSLR on a daily basis and proclaim their professional ambitions to the world, is that Katrina is willing to invest. Not just financially, but emotionally and even more importantly.... she's willing to invest time. Folks often underestimate the amount of power hours that go into not only mastering your craft, but also... building a viable business. Many of the folks who email me asking for advice are looking for magic bullets, a simple 'to-do' list that will turn them into a guaranteed success story overnight.

But... it just doesn't work that way. There are helpful hints, lessons and strategies you can pick up along the way to accelerate your learning (hence, the mentoring.....) but... in the end... you still have to do the work and put in the effort. Of course, that's why it's all so rewarding!

I was thrilled to hear about her slow and methodical acquisition of new gear... meaning, she buys what she can afford after saving up from the work her business has already brought her. Those of you who know me well know that I'm a bit of a personal finance maniac (thanks dad!), and one of the mistakes I see so many aspiring photographers do, is to rush out and drop mad money on gear. The latest and greatest camera won't turn you into a photographic super star... and the sooner folks realize that, the sooner they can focus on developing the actual skills that will bring them success. As much as I wish owning Emeril's pots and pans would transform me into a gourmet chef.... I'm not holding my breath. :)

We talked about some techniques... and largely discussed carving out your niche, working with clients and balancing life/work/family/personal needs. A compassionate teacher whose heart is handed to her students on a daily basis, Katrina balances her passion for photography with a full-time teaching career and her main priority.... her family that includes her husband and their two young sons.

Her recent FB post said, "I had multiple epiphanies during my chat with Khara today about what my goals are and how to accomplish them, what an awesome experience! Thank you Khara, you ROCK!"

YOU rock Katrina! You should be proud of where you are and all that you've accomplished already. Congrats on taking the first leap! :)

Love Shoot: Jackie + Monte

This... is Jackie + Monte. Together, they make up the dynamic duo that is often known to take Lincoln by storm with all of their mad talent in the worlds of business, marketing, and all things creative. They're witty. They're sharp. They would likely kick your butt at any genre of movie trivia.

And... they're planning a very unique wedding coming up this September. Monte selected the poem "Habitation" by Margaret Atwood for their wedding invitations. It reads, "Marriage is not a house or even a tent, it is before that, and colder: the edge of the forest, the edge of the desert, the unpainted stairs at the back where we squat outside, eating popcorn. The edge of the receding glacier where painfully, and with wonder at having survived even this far, we are learning to make fire."

Being as how their house is such an extension of the two of them, I suggested we shoot there to capture them as themselves doing what they do. I love this series of the next 3 images...

The other members of their family include Samples and Mia... who couldn't decide if they wanted to participate in our session or not. :)

Jackie's studio is the kind of place you just never want to leave. Monte often keeps her company amongst the beads, fabric swatches and various notions.

One of my favorite things about their house is the staircase that greets you when you arrive at the front door. This mirror hangs on the landing... conveniently making this image possible... :)

Connoisseurs of fine architecture and design, Monte & Jackie have thoughtfully collected inspiring furniture pieces throughout their home... not the least of which is this love-seat (complete with Samples, posing next to Jackie).

Trees frame their home on one of my favorite streets in the city.

September will be here soon... we're all anxious to celebrate with you!